How many dark ships sail the forest?

My first priority upon coming to Dallas was going to The Church. It was jinxintheworld's birthday at midnight, so we arrived at 12:30 and I bought her a drink. It was a great amazing wonderful night! I danced like mad, and wasn't self-conscious about it at all, which was good considering that for 2 or 3 songs I was the only person on the dance floor. I got several compliments also, even from people who weren't trying to pick me up, which was nice.

We had a good first weekend at Scarborough Faire. The only thing that dampened the weekend for me was thatballguy's news on Sunday morning that, among other things, he and his girlfriend filed jointly last week.

So, now both of the guys I've fallen for have gotten married to the girls they dated immediately after me.

Does anyone out there have any suggestions for how to properly get over this guy? I cry after every time I see him, and half the times after I talk to him on the phone, and I don't like that at all - It's been a year, I should be past this! I can only think of two things to do, and I don't really want to do either. The first would be to get involved with someone else, and I don't want a) a short term relationship, or b) to set myself up for more of this bullshit by going into a long term relationship. The second would be to tell him that I don't want to see him anymore, but I still enjoy his company and conversation, and that would make it really awkward when he goes on the road with her in the next year.